Mood:  don't ask
Now Playing: Baggage
Topic: My Clients/Children
I have noticed that many of you desire your partners ego to go away so that the higher self may take a more active and direct part in the relationship...I have also heard about the baggage that the TF has and needs to get rid of...However as I continue to work with the relationships I notice that there is baggage on both sides and an abundance of ego on both sides...because the TF is not personally there to defend their selves they get painted as having the biggest issues...please remember that a great deal of the problems in a TF relationship can be seen on both sides of the relationship because of the soul connection many of the issues are the same to some degree on both sides...First before I continue if you are in any way connected to your own HS then you can not hide the flaws, fears, doubts and issues in your life from your TF's higher self...Many times the TF is not bringing their bodies forward because there are issues in your life that need to be resolved. As soon as you refocus inward to your higher self and be very honest with your self about the baggage you are carrying and the ego the size of the empire state building that is constantly whispering in your ears about your TFs short comings then began to do something about them he/she will also start to take care of that which appears to be such a major problem in his/her life...Baggage may not always be recognizable as such in our own lives...but past relationship issues that are unresolved and unreleased, fears and doubts about the TF's feeling which are usually confused with the ego's feelings...and accepted as the "true feelings" in the situation...learning to recognize that the body and soul are not the same until they have merged on both a conscious and subconscious level which leaves no room for the ego to ruin things and set up false scenarios with the help of it's ever present friend chaos...all of these constitute baggage and on the level that a TF relationship operates a clean slate is needed the HS will not bring his/her body into a situation where they are likely to be hurt by the replaying of past issues and scenarios in what is quite frankly a new and totally unique situation that neither has experienced before in this life time...All baggage must be cleared away but it must first be recognized as such...Chaos does not need a lot to work with ego and baggage gives it an enormous amount of building blocks to put that wall up between you and your TF a wall that you are unaware of your part in building which makes it all the more difficult to remove...

I need
Mood:  loud
Now Playing: I need him/her to:
Topic: My Clients/Children
I need him to say he is sorry, I need her to communicate with me, I have nothing to offer, I can't trust him/her...I need a sign....hmmmm...
Okay the higher selves don't require any of these things from their other half. Because of their connection to each other the only true need they have is to come together physically without their bodies egos setting stipulations for the relationships...You know the problem with the ego in a twin flame relationship is that it still tries to treat it like it is just a physical connection that needs to be propped up with all these physical requirements. Unfortunately every physical requirement that you tack on to a twin flame relationship gives the chaos around us something to work with... You need communications and almost instantly the person stop calling and e-mailing because chaos makes its connection with the ego and convince it that communication is causing the other person to take you for granted...while your ego is insisting that if the person cared they would do these things.You see the higher selves believe in the KISS method. They understand that the only stipulations in the relationship that chaos can not touch is the need for him/her to love you. You make sure that happens by letting the higher selves know that is all you require is their love...The rest is how love manifest it self. Your twin soul is aware of your needs and does everything he/she can even communicating to let you know that he/she loves you as long as you focus on the higher self and your love for your TFs higher self the assurance through communication, etc..comes naturally...But when you do get the communication, the visit etc... you immediately change your focus to body and the communication and the visits stop...What does that tell you? Even when you and your TF are happily married you must still maintain a focus on the higher self lest you allow the ego into the situation. Imagine the ego awaking without any clue as to what has transpired and finding it self married to the very person it spent so much time running from...hmmm how fast do you think that would fall apart? Better get used to dealing with the higher self guys practice makes perfect...

Hmmmmm
Mood:  caffeinated
Topic: My Clients/Children
The statement "he/she acted as if they were not interested in me other than as a friend...","I don't feel the same way as you do", "Lets just be friends",Twin Flame
address this issue..when this happens no matter how long you have been interacting with this individual and how interested he/she may have seemed it is clear that the "just friends syndrome" comes from the ego...the true connection with this person starts with the spiritual and moves to the emotional then the mental and finally there is a intense physical attraction..when this is not there again you are dealing with the ego..Many of your twin flames physical bodies without the HS is very unattractive to you they are cool, distant, and even unemotional where you are concerned... It is helpful to know the difference and to maintain communication with the higher self...it is important that you let the HS know that when you interact with it's body it is the HS you wish to see in their yes hear in their voice and feel in your connection to this person unless you reiterate this not demand it but in a loving way let the HS know that you know it is the HS that make the body attractive to you you will deal with the ego every time...Think of it as having to deal with an annoying person that can only be tolerated if your best friend is along as well... With patience and the use of spiritual coaching and direction the HS of your TF is finally able with your help and love move into his physical body and direct it in giving you the loving attention that you deserve...without the spiritual work and coaching this could be a long and tedious journey many give up because they see no progress...please understand that progress is shown in direct proportions to the spiritual work and spiritual attention given to the HS it is after all their journey and you are invited to participate and reap the rewards of a love that spans all time and space but just as you do not receive a paycheck unless you work you do not receive this reward unless you work diligently with the HS, yours and your TF's to bring forth the rewards of a loving TF relationship.
Of course your other option(the easy relationship where the person pursue you) is to find someone who is physically and emotionally attracted to you but when that wears off be prepared to start the search for a partner again and again...

The Souls Journey
Mood:  incredulous
Now Playing: The Ego
Topic: My Clients/Children
Many of you have made the connection with your higher selves, But you still allow your ego to rule the day...You would like your twin flame to let go of his/her ego so that the higher self may direct the body...You must know that because of the connection between you as long as your ego is ruling the day your twin souls ego will also do the same..I know that many of you are not really aware of the ego still being in control. When the ego is in control you experience fear, doubt, worry, confusion and bouts of concern as to if and when your TF relationship will work out..When the Soul is allowed to be in control of this entire journey there is a "knowing" about how everything will come out...remember the affirmation "I am now one with my higher self my higher self guides my daily life and shows me how to love and be loved by my twin flame." You have got the first part right now you need to work on the rest of that affirmation being manifested in your lives... So that it will also manifest in your TF's life as well...

Twin Flame Soul Connection
Mood:  caffeinated
Now Playing: Do you Love Your Twin Flame?
Topic: My Clients/Children
Do you love your Twin Flame? I know that when I say that you immediately think of their physical body which may be a big part of the problem..remember when you first came together that was the first time you met the higher self it gave you a glimspe of what the future could hold. You didn't realise that this was when you should have began "courting" the higher self not its body. The key to making this relationship work is to let the higher self know how much you love it and want it in your life...it is your love for the higher self which gives it the power to bring its body to you...

Thoughts to Share
Mood:  caffeinated
Now Playing: Words to Live by
Topic: My Clients/Children
Many of us are in the process of making life altering changes,spiritual or both spiritual and physical which can be difficult. Many time events occur that makes this a daunting task. We feel fear, disappointment, and most of all doubts about the choices we are making. Sometimes just knowing that you can take control and turn the situation around just by believing in yourself will be all that is needed to conquer the doubts and fears that are being slipped into our minds by that insidious negative energy around us. Sometime that energy come from other doubting us. This is what I want to share with you when this occurs: Your biggest limitations are the ones you place on your self or the ones you allow others to place on you. Begin each day by connecting to your higher self and you will find that doubt and fear are easily controlled. They are not a product of the Soul/higher self but of the ego..If you are communicating with your twin flame and they are floundering in doubt and fear. The above message will be one of the Best Holiday Gift you can give them and your self. Happy Holidays..

Lets Talk About it
Mood:  chatty
Now Playing: Venting or Happy
Topic: Just need to talk
Venting or Happy feel free to let of a little steam here or a shout of joy..create an alias and then let it rip..you will probably find that you are not alone and that there are others experiencing the same issues.

Now Playing: Feedback
Topic: Feedback
I hope that all of you who talk to me on http://www.ladydyanna.com feel free to come here to post feedback

Mood:  quizzical
Now Playing: Why
Topic: My Clients/Children
Why do we try to use physical means to work with a spiritual issue? The results is usually frustration and subsequently giving up. We must learn to ALWAYS use the appropriate tools for the task at hand. When the task is going as we want it that is not the time to put down the tools that are working. Don't put those aside until the job is done. (You don't start digging a ditch with a shovel then half way through start using a spoon.) I am confused as to why when one learns the keys to making something work they don't continue using those keys and even enhancing them when they see progress. Instead the consensus seems to be to drop those keys and revert to what was not working...I am open to hear an explanation of why this is from anyone who can explain it to me...

Rambling
Mood:  caffeinated
Now Playing: Good Morning
Topic: My Clients/Children
This is my first time trying my hand at something like this and going about it at 7 am on a Saturday morning might also be a bit questionable. However here goes, I wanted to create a place where the wonderful people who call me on http://www.ladydyanna.com can come and leave feedback. I also wanted to create a little community because upon speaking with each of you I find that you feel as if you may be quite alone in what you are dealing with. Sometimes just knowing that someone else has had a similar experience and dealt with it can be very helpful... So I would like for all of you to feel free to communicate with each other here as well as let me know what you think..
Looking forward to seeing feedback and lots of yakking between everyone of couse there will be the ocassional rambling from me as well.. Hmmm I've just proved that I can be coherent at 7am with only one cup of coffee and 5 hours of sleep.